People who are shy, often here sentences like, “get up”, “be confident you can do it”. “Don’t be shy“. It seems like everyone saying these words to you are trying to encourage you on not to be shy. But its not easy to get rid of this awkwardness.
People who think its challenging to bring confidence in a shy person, then this is the time to prove them wrong. Furthermore, Being a shy person myself, I have always struggled alot in life. And thats why i would love to share some tips on how you can overcome being shy in every situation.
How To Stop Being Shy
People who are shy, always try to find ways to become more confident. So they are able to talk in public. So here it is some tips on:
- Make your communication skills stronger
The people who are shy have a hard time communicating with others. Furthermore, its best if you start talking to new people. Try talking to people when your travelling through a bus or cab in the morning. You can just start the conversation by saying “hello, how are you?”,”what do you do?”. These are the common questions people ask while starting a conversation with a complete stranger.
By practicing the same thing daily, you will boost up your confidence a bit. You will easily be able to know how to start a new conversation. Once you start a conversation by yourself you will be able to drag the conversation as long as you want.
- Take a grip on your strong points
Once you start a conversation with someone, you lack in what to say. In this case if you have a grip on your strong points. You will be able to speak more about yourself even. Furthermore, Try to write down all the positive points about yourself. And believe in yourself. You will see a huge change in yourself.
- Look at yourself in the mirror
To increase your confidence, it might sound weird but stand infront of the mirror. This way you will be able to judge yourself. Especially when you get confused in gatherings. This is a proven tip, Furthermore because you are able to look at yourself while starting a random conversation. And you go know where you lack. This way your confidence level boosts and your’e no longer a shy person.
- Reading books
While reading books you are able to have more knowledge about certain topics. This way even if your shy, you are able to have knowledge. People who are shy dont really have anything to talk about. And thats where they lack in confidence. If you read more books like ‘The quick and easy ways to effective speaking by dale carnegie” can help you become more confidence.
- Stay motivated
I know being shy in this world is hard. People tend to use you and degrade you. But you know keeping yourself motivated can help you stay confident around people aswell.
Furthmore, dont overthink and dont panic. Being insecure about certain things is a beautiful feeling. This way you are able to change and grow into a better person. Keep yourself busy in productive things and you can see how a shy person becomes a confident person.